About love

Yes, 12 years ago i became her boyfriend. We had been knowing each other some years, but didn`t become lovers before this evening, around ten that night.

I was so sure about it, that i didn`t ask her to go out first, dating etc. I just asked her to marry me (!). I knew she was the one i wanted to give my love and life. This love was the love i wanted to fight for.

We were friends and the only thing which we missed was the physichal attraction. Isn`t it like that, if you are close friends - you think that it can`t go further to be anything else? I have heard so many talking about that exciting and attractive woman/man. They think that love has to start with "blood and fire", or do you call it passion? It is not needed, i can tell you. You can become a great lover in all ways - if you are dedicated for the person and the relationship you have there.

That night became special. On my question about marriage she said: "you are crazy, YES!". Marvellous. On year later we married... and still we are there together. Hand in hand!

Lovers are vulnerable, but it is also this which is so special for such a relationships. The love become strong when you take care of this "being special" for each other.

This morning i woke up and followed my children to kindergarten and to school. Afterwards i went home and to congratulate my dear, Vigdis. She has been so nice to me.

I am rich. I have a strong relationship with my wife. Still love and still admiration. I long for spending more time with her. We have this, what is it called in english (?), solidarity or affinity, this sense of having the same feeling about important things and the same interest.

I love to just sit around her, and are so happy that she do the same.

BUT, we have to choose each other each day so this can continue. Everything in life, - work, church, friends, football, this computer and so on want to have it`s part of us. It is not easy. It can destroy the most important things in life. Our relationship with our dearest.

I don`t want it to happen. Cause i love my Vigdis!!!

So i need to prepare moments, journeys and adventures (!) for us. And most of all - we need time together.

So how did you fell in love? How do you take care of your friends and dearest? Let it last and invest - it will give a lot! Good luck


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